EMBRACING THE FINITE AND INFINITE GAMES OF LIFE
We are always very much obsessed with winning, achieving and concurring.
Recently I came across a concept called finite and infinite game of life, it provided refreshing perspective on how we approach various aspects of our life.
As the philosopher James P Carse once said, *“There are at least two kinds of games: **finite and infinite**. A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, an infinite game for the purpose of continuing the play”*
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Think about a game of football. It’s a classic example of a finite game – there’s a set time, a defined scoreline, and ultimately, a winner and a loser. The objective is clear: score more goals than the opposing team within the allotted time.
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An infinite game is where you can’t ‘win’ by itself – the aim is to simply continue playing the game. Now, thinking the idea of an infinite game. Picture your relationships with your family or friends. Unlike a football match, there’s no clear endpoint or winner. The goal isn’t to “win” the relationship but rather to nurture it, cherish it, and continue playing the game of connection and love.
This concept has profoundly influenced my personal and professional life.
By incorporating the principles of finite and infinite games into everyday life, we can see a significant shift in our perspective and behaviour.
It’s all about understanding what truly matters, prioritising what’s important, finding a balance and fulfilment from the ongoing journey.
Whenever you feel that you are not getting results in spite of putting efforts.
Learn to pause and analyse which game you’re playing, whether it’s finite or infinite and then adjust the tactics accordingly!
While finite games have their importance in certain places, embracing the infinite game mentality really helps in shifting our perspective which can lead to greater fulfilment, resilience, and meaning in all aspects of life.
Hope you enjoy reading this. Thank you.
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Quote of the week 💬
“A fit body, a calm mind, a house full of love. These things cannot be bought, they must be earned.” – Naval Ravikant
Learning of the Week 📝
“If you’re confused about life, you’re not alone. There are almost seven billion of us. This isn’t a problem once you realise that life is neither a problem to be solved nor a game to be won.”
Book/Blog I am reading currently: 📚
This week I am following the blog – https://www.julian.com/guide/muscle/intro
if you are looking for information on how to build muscle – you can give it a read
Info is crisp and clear!
My Week in Pictures! 📸
In this section, I share my week in pictures, for those who prefer pictures over text.
I view this part as a combination of journaling and a visual diary of my personal experiences. My days often follow a repetitive pattern, yet each experience brings a unique perspective.
Gym Session!
This Week’s Statistics – I missed my 7.5k steps daily average but I am happy that I showed up everyday!
I found these Aesthetic!
Witnessed the first rain this season!
Ahhhhhh, I love this weather!
Pooja at home! (My Native’s festival celebrated at home)
Evening with my ❤️
Summer Needs!
To my never ending sunset Love!
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Embrace Joy | Spread Love | Live Passionately!
With much love and gratitude.
Atharv Prasanna! ❤️
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Good read.